What to Do the Week After a Spiritual High

It was a retreat, or a conference, or a baptism, or a worship night where something in the room shifted. You came home lit up. You prayed in the car. You made promises, sincere ones, about how things would be different now. And then it was Tuesday. The dishes were there. The commute was there. The person who irritates you was exactly as irritating as before, and the fire you came home with had shrunk to something you could barely find.

If that is your week, I want to say two things plainly. First, this is normal, so normal that the Gospels record it happening to Jesus’ closest friends. Second, the week after the high is not the week the real thing ended. It is usually the week the real thing starts.

Even the disciples came down the mountain

Mark tells us that Jesus took Peter, James and John up a high mountain, and there he was transfigured in front of them. His clothes became dazzling white. Moses and Elijah appeared and talked with him. It is about as high as a spiritual high gets, and Peter’s reaction is completely understandable.

“Peter answered Jesus, ‘Rabbi, it is good for us to be here. Let’s make three tents: one for you, one for Moses, and one for Elijah.’” (Mark 9:5, WEB)

Peter wants to build something so they can stay. Mark adds, gently, that he did not know what to say, because they were terrified. Then a cloud covers them, a voice tells them to listen to Jesus, and suddenly it is just Jesus and the three of them again. They walk down.

What waits at the bottom is not a welcome. It is an argument. The other disciples are surrounded by a crowd and arguing with the scribes, because a father brought his suffering son to them and they could not help. The mountaintop and the failure are side by side in the same chapter. Mark did not separate them, and I do not think that is an accident.

The valley is where the work happens

Listen to what happens next. The father comes to Jesus with a faith that is honest about its own limits. Jesus tells him that all things are possible to the one who believes, and the father answers with one of the most human sentences in the Bible.

“I believe. Help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24, WEB). That is not mountaintop language. It is the language of someone standing in the ordinary mess with a mix of trust and doubt, and Jesus does not send him away to come back when his faith is purer. He heals the boy.

That is worth holding onto in the week after your high. The glow is not the measure of your faith. A great deal of what Jesus did, he did down in the valley, among people who were tired, confused and only half sure. If you feel like that father this week, you are in good company and in the right place.

What not to do in the glow

The emotional peak is a wonderful time to be grateful and a poor time to make big decisions. A few things are worth avoiding.

• Do not make vows you would not make on a normal day. “I will pray for an hour every morning” is a promise made by the person you were on the mountain. The person who has to keep it lives in your actual week. When the vow breaks, it often takes the whole experience down with it.
• Do not read the drop as a verdict. Feelings fade for reasons that have nothing to do with God: tiredness after a big weekend, the return of ordinary stress, simple adrenaline wearing off. The feeling leaving does not mean God left.
• Do not try to manufacture it again. Chasing the next high turns faith into a series of events. You end up living from conference to conference, and the weeks in between start to feel like waiting rooms.

Five things to do instead

1. Write down what happened, soon. Not a polished account. Just what you heard, what you felt, what you sensed God was saying, and what you want to remember. Memory edits quickly. A few honest lines written this week will mean a great deal to you later.
2. Choose one small practice. Not five. One thing you can do on a bad Tuesday: reading a single passage in the morning, a short prayer before work, a verse on your lock screen. Small and kept beats large and abandoned.
3. Tell someone. Tell a friend, a small group, a pastor. Saying it out loud makes it real, and it gives someone else permission to ask you about it in a month. A high kept private tends to evaporate. A high shared tends to take root.
4. Go back to ordinary church. The regular service, the regular group, the people you already know. It may feel flat compared to the event. That is fine. The mountaintop was a gift. The local church is where you actually grow.
5. Look for the person at the bottom of the mountain. Jesus came down and went straight to a father and son who needed him. Ask who in your week needs something from you. Serving someone is one of the surest ways to turn a feeling into a life.

What the high was for

Peter wanted to build tents and stay. Jesus led him back down, and the very next scene is about faith in the middle of failure. That suggests what mountaintops are for. They are not a place to live. They are a place to be reminded of who Jesus is, so that you can follow him through the valley without forgetting.

Years later, the second letter that bears Peter’s name looks back on that day. It says he was an eyewitness of Jesus’ majesty, there with him on the holy mountain. The memory stayed with him. But the life he lived after it was spent in ordinary places, among ordinary people, preaching, traveling, failing and being restored. The memory did not keep him on the mountain. It kept him going everywhere else, and that is the best thing a high can do for any of us.

If it helps, SoapBox has a few quiet tools for exactly this week: a journal for writing down what happened before the details fade, a daily devotional that hands you one passage without asking you to plan, and a prayer wall and groups where you can tell someone and ask them to pray. None of them will recreate the high, and they are not meant to. They are meant for Tuesday.

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